Geonostalgia Calibrating reference materials (RMs) are what is used to calculate concentration. Secondary RMs are measured as unknowns in order to check that the calculated concentrations are accurate. Samples are also measured, but these are true unknowns and so are not helpful for quality control. But, what is important in analysis is that the samples have accurate concentration measurements. This is evaluated using secondary RMs, and fundamentally based on the calibrating RM.
To take a step back for a moment--- if you try a "standards run" (where you measure only reference materials, and you can freely use one RM to calculate concentrations against the other RMs) what you will find is that reference materials do not perfectly predict the concentrations of one another. Inaccuracies related to poor characterization aside, this is largely due to different matrix effect behaviors between standards. Matrix effects are caused by a variety of different things during ablation: differences of laser coupling to the surface, differential condensation of elements in matrix material after ablation, differential transport of elements away from the ablation site, the size distribution of particles entering the plasma, and more. So, when you choose RMs, it is important to pick RMs that have similar matrices so that their elemental fractionations during analysis will be similar and yield similar, comparable results.
The issue is that with sulfides, we are typically ablating minerals like pyrite or sphalerite, but our RMs are things like MASS-1, FES-1, or STDGL3-- with matrices totally dissimilar to natural sulfide minerals. The matrix effects are not small-- for example, the paper that introduces STDGL3 (https://onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/full/10.1111/ggr.12512) finds large matrix effects, and proposes correction factors for different elements and matrices.
The issue is that if your samples have a very different matrix than the secondary RM (again common in sulfides), they may not be very useful in determining the accuracy of your calibration for your samples except in a "ballpark" sense.
So, if you are using 3D trace elements to tune your calibration to make your secondary RM replicate the published values, without good matrix matching between the secondary RM and the samples, the changes that you make to improve your secondary RM concentration data do not necessarily result in more accurate sample concentration data.
However, like I said, this isn't really a 3D trace element issue specifically. It is also possible to make the same mistake in the Longerich method by switching calibrating RMs until the secondary RM looks better.
If you are in the situation where you don't have good matches between your RMs and your samples, like for sulfides, I've found it most helpful to compare the probe data for the samples rather than rely so heavily on the secondary RM. For example, magnetite doesn't have great RM matches for LA-ICPMS, but if my V and Ti data fall along a 1:1 line with the probe V and Ti data, then I am happy.